Thursday, February 5, 2009

Alone For Valentine's Day? SO WHAT.....

Holidays spent alone can be very depressing and we need to find ways to make it anything but that. Just because you are not in a big romantic relationship doesn't mean you can't have a great day. What's the alternative, you going to stay home by yourself, depressed, upset?? If your choice is to stay home alone, don't sit around sulking. Get a couple movies that make you laugh and bring home some great food from a restaurant that you love. Pamper yourself and go get some food from a restaurant that you have never gone to but always wanted to.

I'm sure that you have other friends who are in the same place as you and would love for you to call them up and include them in your plans. You could even get a bunch of single friends together and go out to eat or have a party at one of your homes. Who knows who you can meet while you are out and about. Remember that there are many single people out there and I'm sure they are not staying home just because it is Valentine's Day. There are also many couples that do nothing on Valentine's Day and wish they were joining you to go out.

So, if you think you will be alone for Valentine's Day, you must know that next year could be different. Don't spend your whole day stuck on the same thing. Valentine's Day is one day out of the year and tomorrow will come soon enough. Do anything you can that day to take your mind off the negative things. There's always things like going to the hairdressers, getting your nails painted, getting that fabulous massage, to treat yourself to. Do it, you're worth it, and have a fabulous day celebrating you! I got you thinking didn't I?