Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Relationships Can Be Tough....

Relationships can be very overwhelming at times. We have all different kinds of relationships every day. We have the husband and wife relationship, the parent and child relationship, the good friends relationship, the work relationship, and it just keeps on going on from there. It takes a lot of different skills we develop through the years to be able to nurture all those relationships.

Although we try our best to build on those relationships, we some times find ourselves in impossible situations. Maybe someone is relying on you too much, causing problems that you don't know how to fix, or just totaling being someone that you just don't understand. Those people make it hard on us and then we have to find the skills that we have developed to get through these situations and still hopefully resume a healthy relationship.

Women and men handle relationships differently, where a man tends to let things go, women can not. It really doesn't matter how you approach the person in that relationship, it is the outcome. So before you react, think the whole situation through thoroughly and you may find that in that time you have found a solution for everyone. Most of all though, you have to do what is best for yourself. If the relationship you are in is something that you really want to keep because that relationship is what is best for you then you want to keep that relationship healthy. If you feel that a relationship is having very negative affects in your life then maybe it is time to let them know how you feel, that the relationship is not working for you, and move on with your life.

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